if there are two things i hate

It's:

1. When people are mad at me and I feel like there's nothing I can do to change it. I tend to have huge anxiety problems anyway when people are mad at me, but if there's nothing I can do to rectify the situation, I'm prone to be *very* emotional.....

2. being sick. especially with either cramps or a head cold.

what do these two things have in common? not much, except that i have to deal with both right now, and all i want to do is crawl into bed and cry.